Okay, so I'll try to explain the situation without blabbering too much. I'm from the UK of let's say "Middle Eastern" heritage, average height, below average looks but a good physique in my mid-20's. We all have different goals here, but due to my beliefs and ideals I have always sought an LTR and an LTR only.
I would say that I am very much red-pill. I have no faith in women whatsoever, so you could say that maybe I'm chasing a lost cause...a golden goose, even!
Anyway, because of my "traditionalist"/"conservative" ideals I have never pursued a one-night-stand or anything of the sort. But since society is now such that it's almost impossible to simply fall into a relationship, but rather casual flings and seeing where things go on from there is the norm, I do approach girls with the "I'm going to fuck you" mindset. This in fact landed me in one situation where a girl invited me back to her place and we began the foreplay and all. Her pussy was there for me on a plate, but then I withdrew because 1) I wasn't particularly attracted to her in the first place 2) She was a vile slut who's "seen more dick than a urinal" 3) She was the friend of the girl who I was initially trying to go for...I probably wouldn't have said "no" to her.![[Image: smile.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/smile.gif)
Okay, so that's the closest I came to losing my virginity. There have been other similar moments, but that one was definitely the most obvious opportunity. As I said, I'm not the best looking, but a good physique, a sense of humour and becoming "red pill" enough to stop treating girls the way society teaches you to goes a long way!
Now, one way in which I have attracted the most romance is through my acquisition of various languages and consequently using "language exchange" websites online. While the quality on average is generally not great, there are a few gems and it's easy to stand out among the "mindless" Egyptians, Indians et al. Through this medium I have "befriended" quite a few 8/10's. As you can imagine, the problems are obvious: almost zero opportunity to bang; the relationships tend to drag on for quite a long time and I have a bad habit of eventually showing my possessive tendencies...for instance, the reason I decided to create this thread now is because just last night I deleted one of them because she told me about how she snogged a guy the night before. I feel like I "wasted" a whole year on her!
The problem is that in the past I had some (albeit limited) opportunities in my day-to-day life, but now I have progressed so far up the academic ladder (just before my PhD in my male dominated discipline) that I am not meeting any women, nor do I have the time to. In effect, it's too easy to rely on these far-flung "online romances" and I know it has to stop.
I already tried time-efficient methods such as using 'Tinder', and let me tell you that I was quite confident before my ordeal there, but instead of yielding good matches it's just sapping away my confidence. I am just matching with the odd fatty who I accidentally swipe right on. At least via "language exchange" apps I have access to 8/10 Colombianas who tell me, at least, that I'm good looking.
Okay, now I see that this has become a rant. But before I finish I just want to say that while watching 'Planet Earth II' and seeing the males fight it out for control of the females I thought "wow, isn't that the feeling which society is repressing among us men". I am possessive, territorial and sometimes aggressive, but "game" generally preaches that you must be the opposite. I have to accept that girls are going to sleep around, etc...apparently...Anyway, I just need some advice?
I would say that I am very much red-pill. I have no faith in women whatsoever, so you could say that maybe I'm chasing a lost cause...a golden goose, even!
Anyway, because of my "traditionalist"/"conservative" ideals I have never pursued a one-night-stand or anything of the sort. But since society is now such that it's almost impossible to simply fall into a relationship, but rather casual flings and seeing where things go on from there is the norm, I do approach girls with the "I'm going to fuck you" mindset. This in fact landed me in one situation where a girl invited me back to her place and we began the foreplay and all. Her pussy was there for me on a plate, but then I withdrew because 1) I wasn't particularly attracted to her in the first place 2) She was a vile slut who's "seen more dick than a urinal" 3) She was the friend of the girl who I was initially trying to go for...I probably wouldn't have said "no" to her.
Okay, so that's the closest I came to losing my virginity. There have been other similar moments, but that one was definitely the most obvious opportunity. As I said, I'm not the best looking, but a good physique, a sense of humour and becoming "red pill" enough to stop treating girls the way society teaches you to goes a long way!
Now, one way in which I have attracted the most romance is through my acquisition of various languages and consequently using "language exchange" websites online. While the quality on average is generally not great, there are a few gems and it's easy to stand out among the "mindless" Egyptians, Indians et al. Through this medium I have "befriended" quite a few 8/10's. As you can imagine, the problems are obvious: almost zero opportunity to bang; the relationships tend to drag on for quite a long time and I have a bad habit of eventually showing my possessive tendencies...for instance, the reason I decided to create this thread now is because just last night I deleted one of them because she told me about how she snogged a guy the night before. I feel like I "wasted" a whole year on her!
The problem is that in the past I had some (albeit limited) opportunities in my day-to-day life, but now I have progressed so far up the academic ladder (just before my PhD in my male dominated discipline) that I am not meeting any women, nor do I have the time to. In effect, it's too easy to rely on these far-flung "online romances" and I know it has to stop.
I already tried time-efficient methods such as using 'Tinder', and let me tell you that I was quite confident before my ordeal there, but instead of yielding good matches it's just sapping away my confidence. I am just matching with the odd fatty who I accidentally swipe right on. At least via "language exchange" apps I have access to 8/10 Colombianas who tell me, at least, that I'm good looking.
Okay, now I see that this has become a rant. But before I finish I just want to say that while watching 'Planet Earth II' and seeing the males fight it out for control of the females I thought "wow, isn't that the feeling which society is repressing among us men". I am possessive, territorial and sometimes aggressive, but "game" generally preaches that you must be the opposite. I have to accept that girls are going to sleep around, etc...apparently...Anyway, I just need some advice?