GymBro, to answer your follow up questions:
-how to spot DTF girls: I honestly believe any girl can be DTF if she meets the right guy or the conditions are right. That being said, some general markers for DTF would be a girl at the bar with just one other female friend. Usually means they are on the prowl together. Very high heels / stilettos. Conspicuous alcohol consumption. Looking around and giving a lot of smiles and grins. This question though isn't worth asking brother, it's better to look for girls you find attractive and that you find to be your type rather than look for an easy shoe-in with a DTF girl (which really won't happen, even if she's the biggest DTF slut, you're still not guaranteed to even get a smile back from her)
- Have I noticed any patterns: not really, doesn't seem to be much rhyme or reason to which demographic I take home and who says no thank you.
- Are white girls more DTF: I'm not sure. I only am attracted to white girls for the most part so essentially all of my lays have been with white women. I'm also in a much more redneck / conservative part of the country than you bro. Here in Alberta it's mostly white people so I have no experience with girls of other races, nor do I really want to, to be honest.
- Tourist girls vs local girls: We don't get many tourists here as Edmonton isn't a massive tourist destination for young people. The very few tourists I've layed have been girls visiting from nearby cities / towns. Definitely a girl out in another city is very easy to lay. She gets a free pass to be a slut with little to no social repercussions.
- Smaller intimate bars tend to be more cliquey here with people showing up and leaving with their tight-knit group of friends. Clubs are more conductive to meeting people. But it's a high competition environment. You gotta have something to offer that's usually quite superficial. Being good looking, having lots of cool friends, lots of industry connections, money to spend on bottles, etc. All those things help. Not necessary by any means, but they certainly help if you know how to leverage it right.
"A lot of the game is quick screening and being able to move on from a girl if you sense she's not down to go home with a guy that night (whether it's you or any other guy). After 100 lays you must have some intuition about which girls are most likely to go go home with you."
- Oh fuck yes. I can't describe it but I just *know* when a girl is not down or is wasting time. In my newbie days, I would sense this as well, but I would fight it and try even harder to "win over" the girl. Now that my game is more refined, I can smell things like this from a mile away and move on accordingly. Sure, I'm leaving some change on the table when I do this. But I find converting a "no" or "maybe" girl into a "yes" girl takes a lot more work then simply moving on and finding a "yes" girl.
Conversely, I can also tell when it's on. They way she looks at me, the way she smiles at me. The way she sticks around despite given ample opportunity to run along. Things like that, but again it's hard to describe. It's something that you learn to really feel over the years. Like mind-muscle connection when weight lifting.
"I'm trying to be more efficient with my approaches (not waste time with non-DTF girls, get in and out quickly) so I know which girls to approach. Any insights you could offer as a short brown guy running night game in the Anglosphere (game on hard mode) would be great."
- I used to say the exact same thing. And I still kinda do to an extent. Our time is valuable, why waste it? Especially why waste it on some chubby 6 from the bar that's giving attitude?
That's where I think you should make a slight mindset change and enjoy the process. It sounds cheesy and overdone, but going out should legitimately be fun. You should be having a good time. Don't get me wrong, pussy is still my goal. And I'm not gonna act like some spiritual hippy and say that I still have fun even if I don't fuck a single girl. But try and find a good balance. Yes, your goal is to close some deals and fuck the shit out of a sexy white girl with long legs and blue eyes at the end of the night. But still have fun in the process. Have fun shooting the shit and joking around with your boys. Have fun talking to beautiful girls and flirting a little bit. Try and be a little less results-orientated and try and be more process-orientated. You'll not only enjoy yourself more, but you'll end up pulling more consistently and better quality.
-how to spot DTF girls: I honestly believe any girl can be DTF if she meets the right guy or the conditions are right. That being said, some general markers for DTF would be a girl at the bar with just one other female friend. Usually means they are on the prowl together. Very high heels / stilettos. Conspicuous alcohol consumption. Looking around and giving a lot of smiles and grins. This question though isn't worth asking brother, it's better to look for girls you find attractive and that you find to be your type rather than look for an easy shoe-in with a DTF girl (which really won't happen, even if she's the biggest DTF slut, you're still not guaranteed to even get a smile back from her)
- Have I noticed any patterns: not really, doesn't seem to be much rhyme or reason to which demographic I take home and who says no thank you.
- Are white girls more DTF: I'm not sure. I only am attracted to white girls for the most part so essentially all of my lays have been with white women. I'm also in a much more redneck / conservative part of the country than you bro. Here in Alberta it's mostly white people so I have no experience with girls of other races, nor do I really want to, to be honest.
- Tourist girls vs local girls: We don't get many tourists here as Edmonton isn't a massive tourist destination for young people. The very few tourists I've layed have been girls visiting from nearby cities / towns. Definitely a girl out in another city is very easy to lay. She gets a free pass to be a slut with little to no social repercussions.
- Smaller intimate bars tend to be more cliquey here with people showing up and leaving with their tight-knit group of friends. Clubs are more conductive to meeting people. But it's a high competition environment. You gotta have something to offer that's usually quite superficial. Being good looking, having lots of cool friends, lots of industry connections, money to spend on bottles, etc. All those things help. Not necessary by any means, but they certainly help if you know how to leverage it right.
"A lot of the game is quick screening and being able to move on from a girl if you sense she's not down to go home with a guy that night (whether it's you or any other guy). After 100 lays you must have some intuition about which girls are most likely to go go home with you."
- Oh fuck yes. I can't describe it but I just *know* when a girl is not down or is wasting time. In my newbie days, I would sense this as well, but I would fight it and try even harder to "win over" the girl. Now that my game is more refined, I can smell things like this from a mile away and move on accordingly. Sure, I'm leaving some change on the table when I do this. But I find converting a "no" or "maybe" girl into a "yes" girl takes a lot more work then simply moving on and finding a "yes" girl.
Conversely, I can also tell when it's on. They way she looks at me, the way she smiles at me. The way she sticks around despite given ample opportunity to run along. Things like that, but again it's hard to describe. It's something that you learn to really feel over the years. Like mind-muscle connection when weight lifting.
"I'm trying to be more efficient with my approaches (not waste time with non-DTF girls, get in and out quickly) so I know which girls to approach. Any insights you could offer as a short brown guy running night game in the Anglosphere (game on hard mode) would be great."
- I used to say the exact same thing. And I still kinda do to an extent. Our time is valuable, why waste it? Especially why waste it on some chubby 6 from the bar that's giving attitude?
That's where I think you should make a slight mindset change and enjoy the process. It sounds cheesy and overdone, but going out should legitimately be fun. You should be having a good time. Don't get me wrong, pussy is still my goal. And I'm not gonna act like some spiritual hippy and say that I still have fun even if I don't fuck a single girl. But try and find a good balance. Yes, your goal is to close some deals and fuck the shit out of a sexy white girl with long legs and blue eyes at the end of the night. But still have fun in the process. Have fun shooting the shit and joking around with your boys. Have fun talking to beautiful girls and flirting a little bit. Try and be a little less results-orientated and try and be more process-orientated. You'll not only enjoy yourself more, but you'll end up pulling more consistently and better quality.
Grant me serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
The courage to change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference