Quote: (12-06-2016 02:50 PM)LikeABaller Wrote:
The only way you can verify these kind of things is if you grew up together with her. If you are in her social circle, that helps too.The guy above who claimed to marry a 28yr old virgin, sure I'm sure she is a technical virgin, but what about Anal, BJ,CIM etc etc.
Heck how do you know she didnt go to a surgeon and receive a hymenoplasty, that shit is huge in Thailand.
And as a farang there is no way he can verify her past.
You need to find a girl you trust. If a girl claims to be a virgin, but something feels off, it probably is. If you're not sure whether or not you can trust a girl, you probably can't trust her.
I'm sure you have at least one friend or family member, maybe a brother, who you are 100% certain you can trust and would never lie to you about something important. If he tells you something, you automatically believe it without question. The goal is to find a girl who you can trust in the same way. A girl who literally becomes a part of you, and considers lying to you about something this big to be an act of disrespect against herself (because she is literally a part of you, if she disrespects you, she is disrespecting herself).
Of course, this doesn't mean you should blindly trust a girl just because you feel a connection with her. Building that kind of trust takes time, and if you ever discover anything that makes you suspicious of her, don't take it lightly. But there should come a point, after some time together, that you don't even need to be suspicious of her anymore. If you've been with a girl for over a year and you still feel the need to be vigilant and verify the things she tells you, or you are not 100% convinced she is telling the truth about her sexual history, then she is probably not the right girl for you.