Quote: (09-27-2016 11:18 AM)Suits Wrote:
Rule number one: do not use the word "date."
It's "hang out." You aren't asking her "out." You are "hanging out."
Your purpose is to isolate her to somewhere that enough comfort can be built that you can smoothly transition into increasing sexualization and an eventual bang.
I agree with this. Even an in person pitch shouldn't be like "Hey would you like to go on a date on Saturday."
Via whatever method, the purpose of the pitch is simply to come to an agreement that you are both going to be somewhere physically at the same time, where the whole social circle isn't going to be breathing down your neck, and you can isolate to move things along. So long as there are logistics set up to bounce somewhere the bang can go down, the actual nature of this physical location doesn't matter so much. Park bench, science museum, whatever, it's worked for me.