Pretty novel experience for me. She has some of my actual stuff, but now says she has "other" stuff to give me.
She made a picture of all the physical correspondence, as far as I can tell, I had ever sent her and asked when I was picking it up. Included were a few notes I gave to her at the end of a hotel jaunt we had together. I quite like handwritten pieces to girls, but I definitely do far less of it than I used to.
She's Polish and people who've read a fair few of my articles would be aware I spend a lot of time there and in the rest of Central and Eastern Europe.
She arrived to see me one time in Kraków with the sourest of moods and I calmly made it clear I would leave if she continued with it. This is the sort of thing that worked with her and she became a delight for the days afterwards.
But then I called her bluff around last New Year's and broke things off after she said she was unsure about things between us. It was 99% her shit-testing and/or her having a foul mood, but I could not be bothered playing.
Contact has been sporadic since, yet she is generally cordial. She may still be pissed off I passed her over after I did not come and visit her in Lublin when I was nearby. Her returning the correspondence idea came out of the blue this week.
How do other guys see this both specifically in terms of my experience and generally? I have my own interpretation, but it is good to air these things out as a community.
She made a picture of all the physical correspondence, as far as I can tell, I had ever sent her and asked when I was picking it up. Included were a few notes I gave to her at the end of a hotel jaunt we had together. I quite like handwritten pieces to girls, but I definitely do far less of it than I used to.
She's Polish and people who've read a fair few of my articles would be aware I spend a lot of time there and in the rest of Central and Eastern Europe.
She arrived to see me one time in Kraków with the sourest of moods and I calmly made it clear I would leave if she continued with it. This is the sort of thing that worked with her and she became a delight for the days afterwards.
But then I called her bluff around last New Year's and broke things off after she said she was unsure about things between us. It was 99% her shit-testing and/or her having a foul mood, but I could not be bothered playing.
Contact has been sporadic since, yet she is generally cordial. She may still be pissed off I passed her over after I did not come and visit her in Lublin when I was nearby. Her returning the correspondence idea came out of the blue this week.
How do other guys see this both specifically in terms of my experience and generally? I have my own interpretation, but it is good to air these things out as a community.
Born Down Under, but I enjoy Slovakian Thunder: http://slovakia.travel/en/nove-zamky