Quote: (09-14-2016 12:51 PM)Easy_C Wrote:
Quote: (09-14-2016 11:10 AM)AvidArtisan Wrote:
I never get OPs mentality. She cheated on her BF that she TOLD you about (she could have easily lied and said she was single) with you.
Wouldn't you automatically put her in the bang only pile?
Catching feelings for a chick who started as a degenerate cheater is like being mad at someone whos a compulsive gambler when you two originally met at a casino.
That yeah.
I mean, I was thinking "troll post" for a moment.....then I realized that this post is way too like the nerd mentality to be fake.
Don't catch feelings until they PROVE they're worth it. I'm not talking about ones who just sleep with you, or toss you a smile, or because they're HAWWTT. I mean if they demonstrate superior character over months of getting to know them. Girls who are good to their families, go through ridiculous lengths for the relationship, don't put up any erratic behavior or red flags, never lie or flake, love kids, etc.
By cheating on her BF with you she's already disqualified from that.
Remember: "All who I do not see when I look in the mirror are below me". Go stand in a mirror and repeat it to yourself a few times. This girl is not your friend, she isn't worthy of you trying to kiss up to her....she is there to serve you or GTFO if she won't.
Good points, catching feelings is not a choice sadly
He who dares wins - Del Boy