My game has always been safe. Always go for what's tried and tested and I know works. Weather that's approaching, openers, text game etc etc. I thought to myself "how can I think outside the box to change things up drastically?" I didn't want to try anything new in my night/day game just yet and I wanted to take a risk. I'd like to know if anyone else has done/thought of anything similar and their thoughts.
So I didn't just think outside the box, I leaped outside the box from with a jump that would break my legs but landed on both feet.
I was organising a BBQ/house party with a few friends for last weekend (Saturday) while texting a couple of leads; one from tinder (6) and one from a night game a few nights ago (8). I invited them both and it was agreed. Here was my plan and how it went down:
I told the 8 to catch a ride from someone else. They were passing her way anyway and I was out anyway meeting with the 6. I get a text saying they are all waiting out my house and I roll up 10 minutes later with the girl. The other girl looked confused and couldn't take her eyes off of us. We go in and everyone gets themselves a drink or crack open whatever they bought. Throughout the day I was gaming the 6 while I told my wingwomen to take care of the 8. If I had to go check on something or the 8 left to go somewhere else I wouldn't break eye contact. This lead to some shit-testing from 6 but I kept control, got physical and dismissed everything and carried on as per. As she leaves for the toilet the 8 comes up with a smile and says "you didn't pour me a drink."
"They're in the kitchen. Are you always like this?" I respond. My wingwoman talks to me when we get the chance saying the 8 just wants the attention as the girl I'm with. The tension is killing her and honestly I thought she would have left after about an hour or two. This wasn't the case but she does start texting me with "why are you with her?" "who is she?" "why have you never mentioned her?" Ignored every text for about an hour until I responded "Then leave. You decided to come."
To my amazement she still hangs around for drinking games and isn't hitting on any of my friends which I prepared myself for for the day. It did throw me off a little bit but it made this day a whole lot less challenging.
People start trickling out and the 6 is basically getting ready for everyone to leave for just us. I made it clear as people were leaving we're banging before she goes. In the bag. I see the 8 out personally and kissed closed and told her I'd text her. She calls me a "dickhead" with a smile and walked off. Me and 6 bang that night.
2 days after I text the 8 saying I'm free and almost immediately she texts back. We arrange for her to come over, we bang, experiment successful.
What I took away from this:
+Although this is my first time being fucking ridiculously risky and it worked out, don't be afraid to try something again and learn from any failings which will happen.
+Bouncing a hot girl with a not as hot girl can work a treat
- I probably already had these girls without the houseparty invite and was unnecessary. Having a day to think about it and realising how convoluted this was I need to think of something less so but
+I am more confident to take risks. I can adapt my game
+I will take more risks
What you should take away from this:
+Take risks
+No seriously even if it's not as stupid or even more stupid than this, take risks
tl;dr invited two girls to house party as a risk/expieriment, banged a 6 on that night, banged an 8 a couple of days after
So I didn't just think outside the box, I leaped outside the box from with a jump that would break my legs but landed on both feet.
I was organising a BBQ/house party with a few friends for last weekend (Saturday) while texting a couple of leads; one from tinder (6) and one from a night game a few nights ago (8). I invited them both and it was agreed. Here was my plan and how it went down:
I told the 8 to catch a ride from someone else. They were passing her way anyway and I was out anyway meeting with the 6. I get a text saying they are all waiting out my house and I roll up 10 minutes later with the girl. The other girl looked confused and couldn't take her eyes off of us. We go in and everyone gets themselves a drink or crack open whatever they bought. Throughout the day I was gaming the 6 while I told my wingwomen to take care of the 8. If I had to go check on something or the 8 left to go somewhere else I wouldn't break eye contact. This lead to some shit-testing from 6 but I kept control, got physical and dismissed everything and carried on as per. As she leaves for the toilet the 8 comes up with a smile and says "you didn't pour me a drink."
"They're in the kitchen. Are you always like this?" I respond. My wingwoman talks to me when we get the chance saying the 8 just wants the attention as the girl I'm with. The tension is killing her and honestly I thought she would have left after about an hour or two. This wasn't the case but she does start texting me with "why are you with her?" "who is she?" "why have you never mentioned her?" Ignored every text for about an hour until I responded "Then leave. You decided to come."
To my amazement she still hangs around for drinking games and isn't hitting on any of my friends which I prepared myself for for the day. It did throw me off a little bit but it made this day a whole lot less challenging.
People start trickling out and the 6 is basically getting ready for everyone to leave for just us. I made it clear as people were leaving we're banging before she goes. In the bag. I see the 8 out personally and kissed closed and told her I'd text her. She calls me a "dickhead" with a smile and walked off. Me and 6 bang that night.
2 days after I text the 8 saying I'm free and almost immediately she texts back. We arrange for her to come over, we bang, experiment successful.
What I took away from this:
+Although this is my first time being fucking ridiculously risky and it worked out, don't be afraid to try something again and learn from any failings which will happen.
+Bouncing a hot girl with a not as hot girl can work a treat
- I probably already had these girls without the houseparty invite and was unnecessary. Having a day to think about it and realising how convoluted this was I need to think of something less so but
+I am more confident to take risks. I can adapt my game
+I will take more risks
What you should take away from this:
+Take risks
+No seriously even if it's not as stupid or even more stupid than this, take risks
tl;dr invited two girls to house party as a risk/expieriment, banged a 6 on that night, banged an 8 a couple of days after