False premise.
A young woman can be bitter and be anti-cooperative in a relationship. It's not related to her "N" count or other such nonsense.
If you're in the game *for real*, you recognize
- women's frames are malleable
- womens' moods are malleable
- women need a variety of emotions
So if a woman is being uncooperative, it's because she's not getting guidance. And women look for guidance externally more so than men. She's always taking social temperature to see "How she should be", "how she should feel". And they like that. It's not even a conscious thing. It's by design. You see it in young girls, like before hardcore social conditioning sets in. (it's like you can give a boy Barbies, and he'll play with that piece of plastic like it's a firetruck - and not anthropomorphize it)
So if a chick is not acting right
- her man isn't giving her proper guidance
- her religion/education/belief system/socialization isn't giving her proper guidance
- the things around her, that she pays attention to, are giving her poor guidance.
.....
Getting to your angle.
If she's been going through life without a strong male influence, without strong values, with poor information - she approaches her sexual relationships that way.
That's the state of play in the West. But that doesn't mean you need to hop on a plane.
In the 50's, you had the same issues. With TV and what not, women started getting all of these options on "how to be" and "how to feel". Before then, women would gather in quilting bees and church choirs and compare notes.
A woman wants to be free of any sort of control. That's her nature. That's the nature of man.
But as you see throughout human life, unfettered freedom, freedom without understanding what's being lost and what's being gained - is not a good thing. Freedom in practice pursues short term interests at the expense of long term interests
And that's what happens with chicks nowadays.
They are free to do what they want.
So that's what they do.
And we put things in place as a society to make it easy.
So even if she doesn't fuck a lot of guys and gets jaded - she still has all these bad reference experiences from other places. She tries to live her life based on those. I'm not mad at a chick like that, neither should any man be.
Most of these chicks without dudes do "fine", but emotionally and lifewise, they're a mess. Something went wrong and they don't know how to deal with it.
As she ages, these things fester.
Your job as a player, as a man, is to basically get rid of her poor programming.
You do this through
1) Knowing what the fuck you actually want her to do, her to be
2) Rewarding good behavior with affection/attention, and
3) Withdrawing from her for bad behavior.
It works on every human, but women especially will change their entire lives for a man. A chick dates a guy in cross fit, before you know it she's doing work out of the day. Heaviest thing she regularly lifted before was a half gallon of ice cream. Western Girls turn Muslim and go fight in Syria because of some halal cock.
So if you run into one of these damaged women, you CAN turn her around.
But Why?
The player's dilemma is "Any girl worth all of that, especially when I can get someone younger, hotter, with less of the baggage?"
Heavy behavior Mod and Deprogramming is a good thing for a player to learn, but you can do so in the context of a sexual part of a relationship with a plate/fuck buddy- not the "relationship" part with a monogamous LTR.
WIA
A young woman can be bitter and be anti-cooperative in a relationship. It's not related to her "N" count or other such nonsense.
If you're in the game *for real*, you recognize
- women's frames are malleable
- womens' moods are malleable
- women need a variety of emotions
So if a woman is being uncooperative, it's because she's not getting guidance. And women look for guidance externally more so than men. She's always taking social temperature to see "How she should be", "how she should feel". And they like that. It's not even a conscious thing. It's by design. You see it in young girls, like before hardcore social conditioning sets in. (it's like you can give a boy Barbies, and he'll play with that piece of plastic like it's a firetruck - and not anthropomorphize it)
So if a chick is not acting right
- her man isn't giving her proper guidance
- her religion/education/belief system/socialization isn't giving her proper guidance
- the things around her, that she pays attention to, are giving her poor guidance.
.....
Getting to your angle.
If she's been going through life without a strong male influence, without strong values, with poor information - she approaches her sexual relationships that way.
That's the state of play in the West. But that doesn't mean you need to hop on a plane.
In the 50's, you had the same issues. With TV and what not, women started getting all of these options on "how to be" and "how to feel". Before then, women would gather in quilting bees and church choirs and compare notes.
A woman wants to be free of any sort of control. That's her nature. That's the nature of man.
But as you see throughout human life, unfettered freedom, freedom without understanding what's being lost and what's being gained - is not a good thing. Freedom in practice pursues short term interests at the expense of long term interests
And that's what happens with chicks nowadays.
They are free to do what they want.
So that's what they do.
And we put things in place as a society to make it easy.
So even if she doesn't fuck a lot of guys and gets jaded - she still has all these bad reference experiences from other places. She tries to live her life based on those. I'm not mad at a chick like that, neither should any man be.
Most of these chicks without dudes do "fine", but emotionally and lifewise, they're a mess. Something went wrong and they don't know how to deal with it.
As she ages, these things fester.
Your job as a player, as a man, is to basically get rid of her poor programming.
You do this through
1) Knowing what the fuck you actually want her to do, her to be
2) Rewarding good behavior with affection/attention, and
3) Withdrawing from her for bad behavior.
It works on every human, but women especially will change their entire lives for a man. A chick dates a guy in cross fit, before you know it she's doing work out of the day. Heaviest thing she regularly lifted before was a half gallon of ice cream. Western Girls turn Muslim and go fight in Syria because of some halal cock.
So if you run into one of these damaged women, you CAN turn her around.
But Why?
The player's dilemma is "Any girl worth all of that, especially when I can get someone younger, hotter, with less of the baggage?"
Heavy behavior Mod and Deprogramming is a good thing for a player to learn, but you can do so in the context of a sexual part of a relationship with a plate/fuck buddy- not the "relationship" part with a monogamous LTR.
WIA