[Ibagemyoutagem]

(06-10-2016 02:35 AM)Grindhard Wrote:  

It sounds like you want an LTR with this woman. You have a long life ahead of you, I'd find a 22 year old at age 31 and not the other way around. Maybe you should decide where you want this to go first. You should bang and let us know if those strong feelings remain. A lot of older women love the thrill of dating someone younger. Maybe she's not ready to settle down, which might explain her lack of devotion to you.

I do have a long life but Id prefer not to focus on a girl that hasn't gotten her life together in same way I haven't either which is common at my age. I will try to bang, and post an update. I think my age does make it interesting because I dont dry her pussy up with talk to much about business. I know for a fact shes not ready to settle because she just got out of a divorce last year and Im working on removing the stigma that im even looking for marriage. Which im not.

(06-10-2016 03:39 AM)King of Monkeys Wrote:  

(06-09-2016 11:10 PM)Ibagemyoutagem Wrote:  

suggestions ?

Start by getting a smaller signature. It's an eyesore to go down a page and have a absurdly long signature taking up space. Also, work on better paragraph formatting and improving your grammar. More people will be willing to help you out if your post is easy to read. Keeping up the quality of your post means you care about what you're saying, and it gives other people a reason to care about it too.

As for the milf, I'd say you should put more distance between you and her. You already know she has a time she could have you over, and she makes excuses not to invite you over. When she really wants to see you, she will make up any reason she can to see you. Not to mention, you're getting too attached too early on. Right now you're young and don't need to focus on only one old gal.

Put her on the back burner for now and focus on other women. Whatever you're doing with this milf, talking/texting/meeting up, do it less. There is a good chance you'll meet someone younger, hotter, and smarter, so you have nothing to lose.

Thanks for the suggestion , Im in the process of reading a book to improve my writing because it has caused me alot of trouble over my life unfortunately .
In hindsight I was way over available to her and didn't use my mystery enough. She called me today and I didn't worry to much about her actions towards me and just focused on making her laugh and thats it. It was a good conversation and i've learned not to contact her first because it usually annoys her since she does have the busier schedule. (i dont have a job yet)
Not sure if its the fapping or the dire situation with money im having, but right now meeting new girls just to bang seem low priority vs just 2 weeks ago.

(06-10-2016 09:21 AM)TornadoByProxy Wrote:  

You have oneitis for an older woman because you don't want to put in the work to find an appropriate mate. You fantasize that she is smart and perfect when there are plenty of smart 22 year olds.
Her avoidance of you is a sign that she knows it is unnatural for you to be together. She knows you will leave her when you are 31 and she is 40.

That future outlook gives me a strong feeling, but if you saw my hair line, you would think im just right for her age The main reason I like her is far from looks(she does look fine tho) because a relationship based on looks dont last vs on compatibility in my experience. She has her shit together business wise and Ive always liked that kind of women.