[Ballr]

It sounds like you want an LTR with this woman. You have a long life ahead of you, I'd find a 22 year old at age 31 and not the other way around. Maybe you should decide where you want this to go first. You should bang and let us know if those strong feelings remain. A lot of older women love the thrill of dating someone younger. Maybe she's not ready to settle down, which might explain her lack of devotion to you.