[Dalaran1991]

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You have to be comfortable with
- making her feel uncomfortable
- breaking her heart
- leaving her if its not working for you

You gotta stir shit up, but also channel her energy.

I'm cherry picking part of your wisdom WIA.

How do you "stir shit up" as a man?

We as men tend to prefer stability/peace over all things. Which is why moody, psychopath = drugs to girls because they like stirring shit up.

So in essential, you have to be a drama king? Like getting mad at little things? This is obviously different to "dread game" which is another case, another use.

Just how do you stir thing up and not be emotional/weak?

This is also taking risk. I'm in a functional LTR. I know that in order to keep it functional I need to be doing all the things you stated above.

But its so easy to cross to the other side.

How do you know when its too much and the girl can't take it anymore?

I'm not afraid of losing my girl or leaving her. I'm afraid of hurting her for no reason than to keep her.

That's the irony of it. You have to hurt her in order to keep her? Not arguing with it, but you see the double edge here.

Enough broken bitches out there, aint got no need to add more to the mix just because.