I'm Confused, a girl in class often looks at me but when I talk to her she is cold
04-12-2016, 03:44 PM
I think ThundercockVeritas (nice screen-name by the way) is right. You have a status problem with her.
Soft next (don't engage with or speak to her for a bit). If possible, chat other girls in the class up and make sure she sees it. This is a "systems-based" approach in that it will potentially serve you it two ways: 1) It might raise your status in her mind thus piquing her interest; and 2) MORE IMPORTANTLY, you'll improve your game by talking to the other girls and one or more of them might hook on you as well.
Whenever possible, pursue these "systems-based" strategies, that are win-win for you.
Soft next (don't engage with or speak to her for a bit). If possible, chat other girls in the class up and make sure she sees it. This is a "systems-based" approach in that it will potentially serve you it two ways: 1) It might raise your status in her mind thus piquing her interest; and 2) MORE IMPORTANTLY, you'll improve your game by talking to the other girls and one or more of them might hook on you as well.
Whenever possible, pursue these "systems-based" strategies, that are win-win for you.