It's probably much easier to be an attractive man, than to fake being one.
For example, a lot of guys will try to play hard to get by waiting to respond to a girl's text messages or pretending to be busier than they are an delaying meeting a girl, so as to seem more valuable.
I'm actually an incredibly busy person, so when I tell a girl that I'm only free to meet her on a certain night, it comes off as genuine, because it's the truth and I'm only going to meet her if she puts some effort into it.
It would probably be much harder for me to fake this, than to live it.
Similarly, if you want to be dominant, you have to actually be dominant, not just act dominant.
For example, a lot of guys will try to play hard to get by waiting to respond to a girl's text messages or pretending to be busier than they are an delaying meeting a girl, so as to seem more valuable.
I'm actually an incredibly busy person, so when I tell a girl that I'm only free to meet her on a certain night, it comes off as genuine, because it's the truth and I'm only going to meet her if she puts some effort into it.
It would probably be much harder for me to fake this, than to live it.
Similarly, if you want to be dominant, you have to actually be dominant, not just act dominant.
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