OP is a great example of the "do I 'red pill' this or 'game' this?" false dichotomy we've seen floating around lately.
It's hard to straight up 100% avoid situations where you're around one of her guy friends or orbiters, and giving into the "miffed" means giving up on the "muffed".
But then again, hitting it to hit it while thinking "fuck this, won't be a LTR anyway" isn't that happy of an attitude, hatefuckfun aside.
Sometimes these situations are a harbinger of subtle disrespect to come, other times they're a test of your mettle, and she's clearly about your D.
Real test will be, does she learn from your "hey next time"? Good that you didn't get angry or lecture-y.
Another situation where abundance reality >> abundance mentality is at the root of how you proceed, especially if/when this happens again.
It's hard to straight up 100% avoid situations where you're around one of her guy friends or orbiters, and giving into the "miffed" means giving up on the "muffed".
But then again, hitting it to hit it while thinking "fuck this, won't be a LTR anyway" isn't that happy of an attitude, hatefuckfun aside.
Sometimes these situations are a harbinger of subtle disrespect to come, other times they're a test of your mettle, and she's clearly about your D.
Real test will be, does she learn from your "hey next time"? Good that you didn't get angry or lecture-y.
Another situation where abundance reality >> abundance mentality is at the root of how you proceed, especially if/when this happens again.