Yep Red said it.
The one who makes the first move loses.
If you're chasing her and escalating your relationship, you're losing.
If you suggest exclusivity, then suggest an official relationship, then suggesting an engagement first, etc.
The one who cares less in the relationship, has the most power in the relationship.
Let her be the one chasing you, let her ask "what are we", lead, but don't make make first moves like that. Leaving her at any time because of any BS she pulls gives you power in the relationship. Especially if she knows you aren't bluffing.
The one who makes the first move loses.
If you're chasing her and escalating your relationship, you're losing.
If you suggest exclusivity, then suggest an official relationship, then suggesting an engagement first, etc.
The one who cares less in the relationship, has the most power in the relationship.
Let her be the one chasing you, let her ask "what are we", lead, but don't make make first moves like that. Leaving her at any time because of any BS she pulls gives you power in the relationship. Especially if she knows you aren't bluffing.