Quote: (07-13-2011 01:46 PM)Baldwin81 Wrote:
Hey anonybrit, I've been in something of a similar situation. Not with the ex on a website but this born again virgin shit. I'm not writing this to make fun but your last post struck a chord with me.
I remember you had a thread about this girl on the internet who was kind of stringing you along. You had another thread about converting friends to an FWB situation. To me, and I'd bet to most of the readers here, these are all low-probability short cuts that won't really help. I can tell you the best way to get out of this...
Just start doing the approaches. There's really no other way. It's easier said than done, but the mental slavery this girl is putting you through can all end by gaming other girls properly. Shit, even before you bang again just the rush of doing the approaches, going out on dates etc. will put her a lot further from your mind. By the time you're actually banging (and you will) she'll be a distant memory.
Yeah, this girl really put the works on me, we're talking bad shit. It's taken me a while tog et this far, the final step is to remove her from being "my last female".
I am sure you're right, I think I will try for this FWB situation but it's not going to be straightforward that's for sure. I am not a clubber at all and that's really the easiest way to find a quick fuck so I tend to go for online/FWB situations.
I am scrapping online though, even when you do get laid it's with subpar girls living 2 hours away, waste of time.
I will definitely be more forward and approach more when uni starts back next September though, this shit has to end. Thanks for your advice dude.