Quote: (07-12-2011 02:34 AM)iknowexactly Wrote:
One idea is from Mystery's brilliant idea of qualifying-- the girls you met in the yard, you needed to ask them something about themselves and show you're interested in that aspect- WHO THEY ARE as individuals- rather than just ask them to hang out for no particular reason.
You see, they feel SPECIAL and don't want to hang out with just ANYBODY.
But the principle remains-- she wants to be valued for something besides being a chick.
Otherwise, she's just putting out for a guy who's horny, for whom she's not SPECIAL and is therefore a slut.
Wow, thanks for this comment. This is a real eye-opener for me. I've been thinking this one over after the past couple approaches I've made. This is a game-changer.