Hello everyone,
First, sorry about poor english, it's not my native language.
I'm very new one and i have no experience on women at all and i am 26 yo. Actually i have no serious social and sexual experience at all. Recently( about a week ago) at work( it's very low-paid work in a laboratory) i have new female colleague( 20 and something yo). She is a chemist. Here is the part of the drama. I'm haven't her education and don't understand what she talk to me. But this is only the tip of the iceberg. She works on another places and has very big social experience. Also have 40 yo boyfrend with very well-paid job. With her 2 times we stayed alone at work to late hours to this moment. First she was very quiet for some time, but lately we start to talk to some bullshit that i don't remember now. It was a short talk. I accompanied her to her to the near bus stop and we separated. During this ecxort i we was very quiet( well, there is exchange of some words). This happens in tuesday(09 february), this week. On the next day, when she arrived, she continue to talk to me to some theme( our uncles and their lives:-) that we started yesterday. And to my surprise she very fast switched the theme from our uncles to sex! She was very chatty and i was not able to answer her every time. She talked about sex with her boyfrend, how he is a pervert and she was not very OK with this, how conservative in bed she is and how she don't understand why her boyfrend somethimes complains about how cold she is and somethimes complains about how hungry for sex is she. She also told me that she will leave her boyfrend because he is stupid and a pervert. And so on. In the moments when i was able to answer her on something, she obviously don't want always to listen to me. In these moments i felt some coldness and disinterest from her. As the talk continue, she tell me also that she likes gentle sex and don't like porn, that orgasm is not so important to her, although her boyfrend brings sometimes her to orgasms, on what she masturbates( This last one was answer of my question actually), that her granmother told her that she must manipulate the men. And so on. It was very long and exhausting(to me) talk. At one point she switched the theme on her chemistry stuff that i completely don,t understand. At some point she stop all talks and continue to doing something on her computer. And she remained quiet to the moment when our working time over. I accompanied her to her to the near bus stop in silence again(well, relative silence again, i told her that on friday i will not be on work for some time). She was not come to work on the next day(we don't have strictly fixed working time). On friday i was able to come in the laboratory at late hour. And i clearly see traces that she has been there.
In saturday and sunday(today) i stayed in my home.
So, here is my questions- what means her behaviour and the talk about sex? Is this just attention whoring? Is there some hope to fuck with her and what to do in this situation? Or is she just hope that she will be able to manipulate me to do her work and that's why she stop talking after chemistry thing( she see that i was not competent on this matter)? And is she purposely avoiding me in the next days?
I'm not sure that she even knows my name!
What to do? Please, help!
P.S. I haven't her coordinates yet, no phone number, no facebook, no anything...
First, sorry about poor english, it's not my native language.
I'm very new one and i have no experience on women at all and i am 26 yo. Actually i have no serious social and sexual experience at all. Recently( about a week ago) at work( it's very low-paid work in a laboratory) i have new female colleague( 20 and something yo). She is a chemist. Here is the part of the drama. I'm haven't her education and don't understand what she talk to me. But this is only the tip of the iceberg. She works on another places and has very big social experience. Also have 40 yo boyfrend with very well-paid job. With her 2 times we stayed alone at work to late hours to this moment. First she was very quiet for some time, but lately we start to talk to some bullshit that i don't remember now. It was a short talk. I accompanied her to her to the near bus stop and we separated. During this ecxort i we was very quiet( well, there is exchange of some words). This happens in tuesday(09 february), this week. On the next day, when she arrived, she continue to talk to me to some theme( our uncles and their lives:-) that we started yesterday. And to my surprise she very fast switched the theme from our uncles to sex! She was very chatty and i was not able to answer her every time. She talked about sex with her boyfrend, how he is a pervert and she was not very OK with this, how conservative in bed she is and how she don't understand why her boyfrend somethimes complains about how cold she is and somethimes complains about how hungry for sex is she. She also told me that she will leave her boyfrend because he is stupid and a pervert. And so on. In the moments when i was able to answer her on something, she obviously don't want always to listen to me. In these moments i felt some coldness and disinterest from her. As the talk continue, she tell me also that she likes gentle sex and don't like porn, that orgasm is not so important to her, although her boyfrend brings sometimes her to orgasms, on what she masturbates( This last one was answer of my question actually), that her granmother told her that she must manipulate the men. And so on. It was very long and exhausting(to me) talk. At one point she switched the theme on her chemistry stuff that i completely don,t understand. At some point she stop all talks and continue to doing something on her computer. And she remained quiet to the moment when our working time over. I accompanied her to her to the near bus stop in silence again(well, relative silence again, i told her that on friday i will not be on work for some time). She was not come to work on the next day(we don't have strictly fixed working time). On friday i was able to come in the laboratory at late hour. And i clearly see traces that she has been there.
In saturday and sunday(today) i stayed in my home.
So, here is my questions- what means her behaviour and the talk about sex? Is this just attention whoring? Is there some hope to fuck with her and what to do in this situation? Or is she just hope that she will be able to manipulate me to do her work and that's why she stop talking after chemistry thing( she see that i was not competent on this matter)? And is she purposely avoiding me in the next days?
I'm not sure that she even knows my name!
What to do? Please, help!
P.S. I haven't her coordinates yet, no phone number, no facebook, no anything...