Remember the old Al Pacino line from "The Recruit"? Anyway, I'm finally back in the saddle with making consistent approaches again but I hit a little snag the other day that made me think of that line.
My roommate is friends with a girl I was hitting on a little while back and he passed something down to me from her the other day. He said she saw me giving/taking numbers from a lot of other girls and she got angry. I think I may have hit on one of her friends. She said that my approach shotgun technique won't work on Asian women. My Asian roommate concurs. "I should work on one at a time."
YEAH RIGHT.
I'm not going to change my behavior because of this and I really don't give a shit about what she says. It just made me more conscious about the concept of "being that guy".
I thought that talking to a lot of women would induce jealously and lend me the appearance of confidence. I see now that doing so too openly might make me come of as that guy who is trying to get in everyone's pants, especially to more conservative women.
Thoughts?
My roommate is friends with a girl I was hitting on a little while back and he passed something down to me from her the other day. He said she saw me giving/taking numbers from a lot of other girls and she got angry. I think I may have hit on one of her friends. She said that my approach shotgun technique won't work on Asian women. My Asian roommate concurs. "I should work on one at a time."
YEAH RIGHT.
I'm not going to change my behavior because of this and I really don't give a shit about what she says. It just made me more conscious about the concept of "being that guy".
I thought that talking to a lot of women would induce jealously and lend me the appearance of confidence. I see now that doing so too openly might make me come of as that guy who is trying to get in everyone's pants, especially to more conservative women.
Thoughts?