They settle for someone they don't really like. Most men want to married by a certain age and it's not so much about fit. So they take a subpar girl at age 26, stick with her and get married. Say what you want, but at 28,29,30 a man is nowhere near fully mentally developed, unless he fast forwarded his development by means of heavy adversity, extremely intense gaming, travel etc.
In order to justify marrying just about any girl, men tend to deify their woman. "Oh she's really special" and "oh I can always be my true self around her" but then they hide their friends, their past, their cellphones etc. from because they don't want her to see their actual true self.
More and more sacrifice and the idea that having sacrificed so much for this woman, it would be a shame to just give it all up. So might as well continue compromising and sacrificing.
In order to justify marrying just about any girl, men tend to deify their woman. "Oh she's really special" and "oh I can always be my true self around her" but then they hide their friends, their past, their cellphones etc. from because they don't want her to see their actual true self.
More and more sacrifice and the idea that having sacrificed so much for this woman, it would be a shame to just give it all up. So might as well continue compromising and sacrificing.