Good points have been made, but I think only Heart Break Kid and Beyond Borders came close to the real reason for this.
Human sexual hierarchy is at play here.
In today's world, women's participation in the workforce coupled with elimination of religious/moral regulations of sexual behavior led to female sexuality being unconstrained and released in its primordial form. Also, in the absence of patriarchal culture our society is largely feminized.
What does this mean for men? Just like during caveman times, the majority of men in today's world are sexually unattractive to women. By and large, women crave for alphas - we all know that. However, the majority of alphas won't even think of settling down and marrying, so your modern woman has to bargain and settle for a provider beta once she hits the wall and starts approaching 30.
This is where the average dude comes into play. He has followed all societal norms which have been taught to him since childhood (be nice, well-mannered, hard-working and the girls will flock to you), yet he never found success with the ladies. Eventually however, he'll find an average girl that likes him and get himself into a LTR or two. Being subconsciously very aware of his status in the sexual marketplace, and brainwashed into thinking that's the right thing to do, he'll end up marrying his girl. And there you have it, your sissified beta husband is born.
However, the worst thing about this is that those guys really have no better alternative. Remember, the vast majority of men will never discover, let alone swallow the red pill. They're completely in the dark, and game is unavailable to them. What are they going to do, sit at home alone and jerk off to porn? They're men, with sexual impulses that have to be satisfied somehow. If it has to be once per month with an ugly wife, then so be it.
As I see it, so many married guys are pussies because they have no other option.
I see this everywhere around me. Average men, who could have fared much better had they invested in self-improvement, shackled to ugly and fat wives. It really terrifies me in a way.
Human sexual hierarchy is at play here.
In today's world, women's participation in the workforce coupled with elimination of religious/moral regulations of sexual behavior led to female sexuality being unconstrained and released in its primordial form. Also, in the absence of patriarchal culture our society is largely feminized.
What does this mean for men? Just like during caveman times, the majority of men in today's world are sexually unattractive to women. By and large, women crave for alphas - we all know that. However, the majority of alphas won't even think of settling down and marrying, so your modern woman has to bargain and settle for a provider beta once she hits the wall and starts approaching 30.
This is where the average dude comes into play. He has followed all societal norms which have been taught to him since childhood (be nice, well-mannered, hard-working and the girls will flock to you), yet he never found success with the ladies. Eventually however, he'll find an average girl that likes him and get himself into a LTR or two. Being subconsciously very aware of his status in the sexual marketplace, and brainwashed into thinking that's the right thing to do, he'll end up marrying his girl. And there you have it, your sissified beta husband is born.
However, the worst thing about this is that those guys really have no better alternative. Remember, the vast majority of men will never discover, let alone swallow the red pill. They're completely in the dark, and game is unavailable to them. What are they going to do, sit at home alone and jerk off to porn? They're men, with sexual impulses that have to be satisfied somehow. If it has to be once per month with an ugly wife, then so be it.
As I see it, so many married guys are pussies because they have no other option.
I see this everywhere around me. Average men, who could have fared much better had they invested in self-improvement, shackled to ugly and fat wives. It really terrifies me in a way.