I find that unfortunately women tend to be one extreme or the other.
You get slut girls who have no emotions and are very unsatisfying to be with (you are just putting your thing in a warm hole, nothing more), which are usually the vast majority of women in western countries.
Or you get good girls (found in vast quantities in the countries we all like to travel to like Colombia, Ukraine, etc) who if they like you get real clingy and want to marry you and have children. Why is it so hard to find girls who are down for a 3 month or even 6-12 month monogamous mini relationship? To me a mini-relationship with a good girl is the best of both worlds but unfortunately in reality at the end of the period the girl gets really hurt when you break things off as she would have hoped it would become permanent, even when you warned her it would not at the beginning and on many subsequent occasions, she hung in secretly hoping you would change your mind and commit.
It really breaks my heart to hurt the feelings of a good girl and break up with her, and then I feel like shit afterwards. At the same time I find ONS with westernized sluts to be supremely unsatisfying, so I am stuck in this no man's land unsure of what to do. I find that good girls can get incredibly attached within a few months so those that say dump her in less than a year, well you still have the problem.
You get slut girls who have no emotions and are very unsatisfying to be with (you are just putting your thing in a warm hole, nothing more), which are usually the vast majority of women in western countries.
Or you get good girls (found in vast quantities in the countries we all like to travel to like Colombia, Ukraine, etc) who if they like you get real clingy and want to marry you and have children. Why is it so hard to find girls who are down for a 3 month or even 6-12 month monogamous mini relationship? To me a mini-relationship with a good girl is the best of both worlds but unfortunately in reality at the end of the period the girl gets really hurt when you break things off as she would have hoped it would become permanent, even when you warned her it would not at the beginning and on many subsequent occasions, she hung in secretly hoping you would change your mind and commit.
It really breaks my heart to hurt the feelings of a good girl and break up with her, and then I feel like shit afterwards. At the same time I find ONS with westernized sluts to be supremely unsatisfying, so I am stuck in this no man's land unsure of what to do. I find that good girls can get incredibly attached within a few months so those that say dump her in less than a year, well you still have the problem.