Great story from Hank and I don't have any criticisms or suggestions because he handled it his way. And whether or not she came running back is not the point, the point is that he wasn't going to let a female upset him.
Many of the responses on here have been based on whether or not you "game" her well enough so that she wants to stay (scarcity mentality). This is an absolute misunderstanding of what game is and shows that a lot of guys on here still believe that game is just some shit that helps you get laid.
Frame is Game.
And the name of the game is Your Happiness.
Meaning that anytime a female does something to make you unhappy, then your response has to be to hold frame (outcome independence). Hank's willingness to walk away is his game. The girl was compelled to respond because she now felt the pressure of losing something valuable. Whether or not she came running back was irrelevant to Hank, all that mattered was his happiness.
When women know they have no power to affect a man's happiness that's when they respond because now they know they've found an alpha, a valuable man. Hank showed her this when he casually walked away without a second thought. Having this level of frame is almost bittersweet because you lose the sense of indulgence from getting hot girls, but that's all ego anyways.
Frame is about defeating the ego and every man owes it to himself to reach this level because nothing is more important than the ability to dictate your own happiness. When a man can do this, when he is stronger than the body, no female can upset him.
Many of the responses on here have been based on whether or not you "game" her well enough so that she wants to stay (scarcity mentality). This is an absolute misunderstanding of what game is and shows that a lot of guys on here still believe that game is just some shit that helps you get laid.
Frame is Game.
And the name of the game is Your Happiness.
Meaning that anytime a female does something to make you unhappy, then your response has to be to hold frame (outcome independence). Hank's willingness to walk away is his game. The girl was compelled to respond because she now felt the pressure of losing something valuable. Whether or not she came running back was irrelevant to Hank, all that mattered was his happiness.
When women know they have no power to affect a man's happiness that's when they respond because now they know they've found an alpha, a valuable man. Hank showed her this when he casually walked away without a second thought. Having this level of frame is almost bittersweet because you lose the sense of indulgence from getting hot girls, but that's all ego anyways.
Frame is about defeating the ego and every man owes it to himself to reach this level because nothing is more important than the ability to dictate your own happiness. When a man can do this, when he is stronger than the body, no female can upset him.
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