Quote: (12-31-2015 11:23 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
@Pitt
How many women sacrifice their happiness for the good of the family?
There is debate about how many marriages fail, 30%-60%
There is no debate on who initiates divorce proceedings. It's women by a large margin. If she ain't happy she's running to the courthouse. She puts herself first, and euphemistically the children.
The man that stays in a relationship where the woman is openly disrespectful or adulterous is not doing his children any good. At home watching Frozen with the kids while Mommy is having her weekly girls night out.
Part of the weakness of most men is this willingness to sacrifice self for others. It is not natural. It is bred into boys at an early age. Some 15 year old just gave his life for 3 girls. Why?
Men's mental health and emotional welfare are verboten in the mainstream and in the 'Sphere. But game is largely about tapping into those things that have been suppressed.
So even with a family in mind, a man should consider his grievances as equal to those of others. He may decide to stick with the abuse, but it should not be an automatic decision.
WIA
It derives from the pedestalization of women in the West, especially in the Anglosphere. Although I agree with the ideals you express, what your post fails to mention, though, is the epic levels of thirst in the West, above all in the Anglosphere, which supplies women with enormous leverage in dictating the terms in any LTR. How many men are going to be ready to walk away when they know that the result of doing so may well be a multi-year dry spell? And this is precisely the calculation that many men, especially blue pillers, are faced with these days when contemplating bailing on a toxic relationship.