Quote: (12-29-2015 05:39 PM)newbie123 Wrote:
What was the date? Same as every other guy? Coffee? Dinner.
Here is what you do. I'm guessing you're interested in something. You take her to the place where she can see what you are interested in and you tell her about it enthusiastically. HOWEVER, mix in with that some non verbal push.
My reasoning is cuz women want to see drive and passion. Every guy has that but it is in his chosen niche. It will show when you take her.
Serious question:
Have any of you lifting-guys have taken a girl at the first date to the Gym?
And how it went out?
On topic:
The topic is kinda complex actually.
The short answer is that you cannot really change your wired personality traits, but your behavior and the way you feel why behaving like X.
For instance when you are introvert, that will be always the case.
First step is to recognize it.
Then you have to accept and embrace it - finally being an introvert also has lots of advantages (a lot of capacity to reflect deeply, introspections, enjoying more peace and so on).
Then you also have to recognize your other side - the extrovert one and learn to as well enjoy it in the moment you wanna switch to it combined with learning how to express it (building social skills for instance).