It sounds like your speed is completely off. Like others have said, there was no relationship to begin with. If you're in the US like your profile says, it's not exactly a land of 'wait-until-marriage virgins'. You should be aiming to bang on the first date. Calibrate from there.
Your have described your attitude towards women as one of wanting to treat them well, love them, and always be there for them. That is simply not the correct attitude towards a women you are courting. That is a premature fantasy. Until you are intimate, you should put that fantasy aside, and accept that you are in the 'demonstration' stage. She hasn't accepted your offer of yourself as her partner -- and hence you possess nothing to love, treat well, or treasure.
Also don't pretend that a women is even capable of such a relationship, especially in somewhere like America, unless her behaviour evidences it. If a chick is actually into getting pumped-and-dumped, but you decide to project your ideal of a housewife on her, you're setting yourself up for an unpleasant awakening.
Your have described your attitude towards women as one of wanting to treat them well, love them, and always be there for them. That is simply not the correct attitude towards a women you are courting. That is a premature fantasy. Until you are intimate, you should put that fantasy aside, and accept that you are in the 'demonstration' stage. She hasn't accepted your offer of yourself as her partner -- and hence you possess nothing to love, treat well, or treasure.
Also don't pretend that a women is even capable of such a relationship, especially in somewhere like America, unless her behaviour evidences it. If a chick is actually into getting pumped-and-dumped, but you decide to project your ideal of a housewife on her, you're setting yourself up for an unpleasant awakening.