Quote: (07-31-2018 11:29 AM)General Stalin Wrote:update
Quote: (07-13-2018 07:19 PM)gomez556 Wrote:
Question
I had a dog I brought into the apartment when we lived together but couldn't bring it back home (temporarily with parents until end of year). my ex has my dog, what do you do when you really want to see your dog? bought my dog before she moved in.
I would reach out and see about retrieving the dog. I wouldn't count this as breaking the no-contact rule as it's a very utilitarian reason to reach out and there is literally no other way to go about getting your pet back except to talk to her about it, just don't get suckered in to getting emotional, reminiscing, or rekindling anything. You are only contacting her because it is necessary to correspond to get your dog back.
she kept saying I can't go over yet says I have to pick him up. I had to let go my own pet. I don't want to deal with that anymore plus she is basically using my pet as a weapon to control me.