I see it as something to be used very sparingly, for the purpose of making her feel more comfortable when first meeting you, if necessary. It's much better to emphatically announce that you don't know something than make a joke about your intelligence...do it more than once in a rare while and you are inviting her to do the same to you. Bad juju.
On the other hand, I did have one girlfriend in particular who was really into self-deprecating humor, and she loved it when I spoke negatively like that.
As a rule, I stay away from that kind of talk unless I'm with my buddies and I said something off point or something.
On the other hand, I did have one girlfriend in particular who was really into self-deprecating humor, and she loved it when I spoke negatively like that.
As a rule, I stay away from that kind of talk unless I'm with my buddies and I said something off point or something.
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