(Oblivion - did you have to quote the whole damn post again?)
Sometimes you date and you think everything is going all fine in a technical sense. From what you posted here, everything you did was perfect.
The one thing that stands out for me is that you found her boring. I would ask questions about how maybe all you body language may have changed when you found her boring. I mean, I don't know, but thats something to think about.
Another thing is that while most girls like sex and take an interest in guys, some actually are quite confused about their sexuality (like some guys).
We can never be certain why - but one explanation is that somehow this was a sign of things to come - ie. her lack of interest in pursuing a second date. Some girls are boring as a defense mechanism - a 'blood from a stone' type thing. The good news is that there are not many of these girls around. I have one classic example. SHe is a very special and very hot girl, but she has real mental issues.
Also around 30% of the girls I date have had sexuality issues. THis hasn't meant they can't have relationships or sex, but there is something there that the guy needs to work on with them thats not his fault.
While 99% of time I usually take the view that I am responsible for interactions so I can learn from them, sometimes it is the other person (ie half indian girl) who has some kind of issue. SOmetimes you have to make the call that its actually her, and just move on without taking any lesson about what you could have done.
Sometimes you date and you think everything is going all fine in a technical sense. From what you posted here, everything you did was perfect.
The one thing that stands out for me is that you found her boring. I would ask questions about how maybe all you body language may have changed when you found her boring. I mean, I don't know, but thats something to think about.
Another thing is that while most girls like sex and take an interest in guys, some actually are quite confused about their sexuality (like some guys).
We can never be certain why - but one explanation is that somehow this was a sign of things to come - ie. her lack of interest in pursuing a second date. Some girls are boring as a defense mechanism - a 'blood from a stone' type thing. The good news is that there are not many of these girls around. I have one classic example. SHe is a very special and very hot girl, but she has real mental issues.
Also around 30% of the girls I date have had sexuality issues. THis hasn't meant they can't have relationships or sex, but there is something there that the guy needs to work on with them thats not his fault.
While 99% of time I usually take the view that I am responsible for interactions so I can learn from them, sometimes it is the other person (ie half indian girl) who has some kind of issue. SOmetimes you have to make the call that its actually her, and just move on without taking any lesson about what you could have done.
"For the true meaning of victory ask the defeated warrior"