For dating apps in NYC: going with a non-generic, non-needy but tantalizing opener is often the best way to go. From there, get her off the app (phone correspondence) and attempt to meet up asap. Then you need to book tight logistics (fresh direct or a place close to your pad) and attempt to close asap. If you don't have stellar chemistry or bang on the first date, 90% of the time you'll never get her out again. It also seems great sex and rapport doesn't guarantee repeat business.
Even with top notch pics, opening super direct will often end in you being blocked or ignored. Zero plausible deniability or subtlety.
Even with top notch pics, opening super direct will often end in you being blocked or ignored. Zero plausible deniability or subtlety.