Quote: (11-03-2018 01:52 AM)wi30 Wrote:
Quote: (10-17-2018 05:35 PM)Northern Wastes Wrote:
Bump because there has been too much negativity in the game section, and this thread goes well with the LTR Master Thread.
Any 3 year update?
A lot of things have happened since I posted this 3+ years ago. Short answer is that we had different priorities on life and mutually went our separate ways. She wanted to stay in small town Wisconsin while I had other plans.
The first few months after this breakup:
-Moved 1000+ miles from home with zero money or plan (It was always a dream of mine to move to Colorado.)
-Crashed on a buddy's couch for 3 weeks while finding a job and apartment.
-Lived in an empty apartment for 6 weeks with my dog and banging tinder girls on an air mattress.
-Working a commission only job and putting rent on a credit card.
Once I stabilized my life/income/routine in Denver, I met a girl from Brazil who was living here as an au pair. We hit it off and started spending every weekend together. Last summer I went down there to meet her family and we got married last November. I also found my career excelling since this past January. Since I started with this company, I've been promoted twice. Last Tuesday, my manager and VP surprised me with a 5 star steak dinner to announce my promotion. I'm hitting a new level of base salary plus commissions and planning towards paying off student loans way ahead of schedule, buying a house, and planning for kids. I've also gotten another dog. My life couldn't be better.
Quote: (10-17-2018 07:05 PM)quaker13 Wrote:
Am I the only one troubled by a man, particularly a man in his 20s, moving in with a woman. Dude you haven't seen nor have you experienced jack shit. I hate to start reciting the old trope about Alpha males vs Beta males, but your lack of cynicism is a bit disturbing. You need to appreciate this relationship for what it is and just know the a break-up is and should be inevitable. You need to focus on your career in your 20s as one poster has already noted. I have been married for 5 years and shit aint easy. We literally have no external factors adversely affecting us(toxic family, money, health...etc) and shit still aint easy. My wife makes a few times the salary i make so there's constant posturing for frame. She knows she married a legit alpha stud, but still feels the need to acquire hand. She was incredibly sweet in the beginning but guess what, that eventually waned. Experience life some young homey
Hey Legit Alpha Stud*, how does it feel to mooch off a successful woman? Life must be pretty rough drinking bottomless mimosas at brunch with all your yoga boyfriends.
*synonymous with un-repped, big baller, soiboi faggot.
Hey Man glad to hear life is going well, and congrats on your marriage. Thanks for taking the time to update and I hope it keeps rocking.