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(10-01-2015 10:34 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

(10-01-2015 08:07 PM)Easy_Mode Wrote:  

How do I let my main know she is on the verge of getting the boot? The situation is this:
I stay the night with her 4 or 5 days week.
A few weeks ago she invites me over, but doesn't put out. I leave, which pissed her off. Oh well. I did tell her I don't hang out without sex. Probably a bad move. But she definitely got the message.
Last week she spends the night. Doesn't put out. I don't say anything. I just go cold for two days.
The other day she does this shit again. Now, I'm furious. I've barely talked to her in two days. She invited me over tonight, but I said no I am not in the mood. I'm on the verge of just saying fuck it, and never seeing her again. Its infuriating.
Its very possible she has a side piece. She strikes me as a player.

I actually like her. She is smoking hot, which makes it even more infuriating when she pulls this shit. Because looking at her ass gets me instantly hard. Guys, how can I tell this woman to only invite me over if you're ready to put out in a way that will make a woman understand? I'm lost.

So when you say she didn't put out..how exactly? Did you initiate sex and she shut you down? Or were you laying there waiting for her to grab you by the shank and get to work? Big difference

Also what are you doing to get her revved up before you get there? If you learn how to get her tingles going in advance you wont have to do much before you're balls deep once you get there.

Quick example:

Via text

Her: "Hey what do you want to do tonight?"
Me: "Pull you down by the hair and go all the way up inside you"

Done deal

Yes, I attempted to initiate. She would just turn her back to me. The first time she did this I left. The second was at my place, so I just had to suck it up like a dumb punk bitch. The third I told her "I'm leaving this just got really awkward." She asked me to come over today, but I said no.

I will try the text advice. At least, then I'll know what mood she is in. Also, I left out the problem seems to occur when she is on Adderall.