Quote: (10-03-2015 08:39 PM)Cheetah Wrote:
Quote: (10-03-2015 01:44 PM)Onto Wrote:
Don't allow her to be in a position where she could be tempted. Human beings are self-indulgent sinners by nature, especially women. The only way to prevent her from cheating is to remove the situations where she could be tempted by another man.
It's really that simple.
But that means being "controlling", and not allowing her to do whatever she wants and with whoever she wants. It means she doesn't have her "own life", her "freedom", "independence", and "career".
Most western men won't be able to control a western woman in such a way. He's been culturally programmed from birth not to. Most western men even think it's wrong not to allow a woman to have her freedom to work, to vote, have her own friends, girls-night-out, and all the rest.
It's no wonder Western men are getting fucked over. They've stopped believing in themselves.
+1 for the quoted part.
But is it really bad to let the girl have her own female friends?
Thanks for the rep pt. I think her friendships should mostly be in relation to her marriage. For example, she's friends with Betty, who along with her husband Joe, play cards with you on Saturday's or whatever.
It's ok for her and Betty to go grocery shopping together, or have lunch together.
I'm more talking about her other friends like slutty Suzie who really wants a wing-girl to go out do things with and eye on attracting men along the way.
Ideally, you marry someone when you're ready to have a family so your wife will be so busy raising your children, taking excellent care of you and your home, and helping with the administrative tasks of your business interests that she really won't have much down time for anything else that doesn't involve you.
A wife should never feel bored, you need to keep her busy and engaged with lots of things to do for the betterment of your marriage/family.
The point I'm really trying to make is, when it comes to fidelity, it's less about picking the right woman and more about controlling her environment.
There's a common belief she will only cheat if we're not Alpha enough, or if she was a slut deep down to begin with, and all we need to do to prevent the infidelity is to pick well and always game her.
This belief brings comfort we can have control of the feminine's whimsical ways, but I think it's a false comfort because all women will cheat if given the right circumstances, because it's human nature to give in to temptation. Men too.
Temptation is so "humanly" natural that it's what's used as a test to differentiate men from hero's. Whether it's Ulysses resisting the siren song, or Jesus resisting the temptations offered by the devil.
Men have the capacity to resist temptation, to subscribe to morality, which is a masculine trait. Women don't, which is why we rarely, if ever, see any stories of heroines overcoming temptation. For women, morality and resisting temptation just isn't primary for them as it is for us.