He's baaaack...
Hello! Everyone's (least) favorite basket case here. I have some questions that I hope other members of the community can shed light on, hopefully without too much self-flagellation and ego bruising.
For those of you who haven't been following my tragicomedy, I've finally stabilized my Prozac dosage and had several realizations, namely that employing "game tactics" was actually counterproductive to my goal, as I found out from a female friend later. Being aloof and silent made me come off as stiff and cold rather than cool. It also turns out this was the reason why the girl I was after a few months ago rejected me: although I seemed decent initially, I was too cold and didn't really seem that interested in her.![[Image: undecided.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/undecided.gif)
I decided to go "game-free" for a while (that is, not worry about what to say or "being alpha") and use my natural ADHD charisma instead. It has been way more successful - for me, it's better to be very warm, fun, and friendly rather than "cool." But there are still some aspects I'm puzzled about which perhaps can be explained by others.
1. ADHD game, or "crazyfool game," is extremely, extremely effective with black and Latina women at disarming any hostility or resistance, based on tests run in NYC. It's also fairly effective with urbanized Asian girls. Part of this may be contrast game - these women don't expect a tall, thin, "cute nerdy" white guy to be so quick-witted or confident. But for whatever reason - and I still don't know why - it doesn't work with white people. It's as though most white people are completely unresponsive, either missing the humor completely, or failing to react. If a white girl is interested in me, it's generally because of my looks (marginally above average,) height (6' 4") or status (Ivy League.) That's not to say that I can't deal with white people - it's just that I don't have that extra edge with people of my own race, generally. Why?
2. I have a weird ability to attract Indian girls, and to a lesser extent Asian girls and "nerdy" white girls. I'm guessing this is because of the "cute nerdy guy" thing but it's weird how it seems like 2 out of every 3 Indian girls I meet seem to find me at least somewhat attractive. However, I prefer black and latina girls because I like curves and full-figured women. Should I just stick with what I'm good at or am I missing something?
3. I am going to be in a major US city for at least several weeks during this summer, in which the girl who "broke me in" lives. Should I contact her to try to get some more practice, or do I not want to open that particular can of worms?
Hello! Everyone's (least) favorite basket case here. I have some questions that I hope other members of the community can shed light on, hopefully without too much self-flagellation and ego bruising.
For those of you who haven't been following my tragicomedy, I've finally stabilized my Prozac dosage and had several realizations, namely that employing "game tactics" was actually counterproductive to my goal, as I found out from a female friend later. Being aloof and silent made me come off as stiff and cold rather than cool. It also turns out this was the reason why the girl I was after a few months ago rejected me: although I seemed decent initially, I was too cold and didn't really seem that interested in her.
I decided to go "game-free" for a while (that is, not worry about what to say or "being alpha") and use my natural ADHD charisma instead. It has been way more successful - for me, it's better to be very warm, fun, and friendly rather than "cool." But there are still some aspects I'm puzzled about which perhaps can be explained by others.
1. ADHD game, or "crazyfool game," is extremely, extremely effective with black and Latina women at disarming any hostility or resistance, based on tests run in NYC. It's also fairly effective with urbanized Asian girls. Part of this may be contrast game - these women don't expect a tall, thin, "cute nerdy" white guy to be so quick-witted or confident. But for whatever reason - and I still don't know why - it doesn't work with white people. It's as though most white people are completely unresponsive, either missing the humor completely, or failing to react. If a white girl is interested in me, it's generally because of my looks (marginally above average,) height (6' 4") or status (Ivy League.) That's not to say that I can't deal with white people - it's just that I don't have that extra edge with people of my own race, generally. Why?
2. I have a weird ability to attract Indian girls, and to a lesser extent Asian girls and "nerdy" white girls. I'm guessing this is because of the "cute nerdy guy" thing but it's weird how it seems like 2 out of every 3 Indian girls I meet seem to find me at least somewhat attractive. However, I prefer black and latina girls because I like curves and full-figured women. Should I just stick with what I'm good at or am I missing something?
3. I am going to be in a major US city for at least several weeks during this summer, in which the girl who "broke me in" lives. Should I contact her to try to get some more practice, or do I not want to open that particular can of worms?