@evilbuttmunch, don't feel bad. You had 3 relatively short date's. Forget about all these "Alpha guys" who say you should have banged by date 2. Maybe they were getting laid when they were 13 and had model looks but majority of us are AFC's and in my case I ain't handsome so have to work harder.
I bet there are many guys who have worse stories than yours about being beta while dating a good looking girl yet they don't wanna loose face in front of the PUA community and come clean.
Shoot, if it makes you feel any better check out my thread about a Moscow trip I had earlier this year. Had a hot chick spend a night at my place twice and still couldn't score. She showed some of the same signs of "unease" as yours including locking the elbows and keeping her legs crossed. Several weeks later I found out she had done some near porn photoshoots...
My point is escalate...wait a couple dates though and then if she refuses drop her. I learned it the hard way as well but take it easy as with experience we all get wiser.
I bet there are many guys who have worse stories than yours about being beta while dating a good looking girl yet they don't wanna loose face in front of the PUA community and come clean.
Shoot, if it makes you feel any better check out my thread about a Moscow trip I had earlier this year. Had a hot chick spend a night at my place twice and still couldn't score. She showed some of the same signs of "unease" as yours including locking the elbows and keeping her legs crossed. Several weeks later I found out she had done some near porn photoshoots...
My point is escalate...wait a couple dates though and then if she refuses drop her. I learned it the hard way as well but take it easy as with experience we all get wiser.