[Captainstabbin]

So, I actually found and reviewed the actual survey to see what constitutes "rape". It's as we all suspected, rape isn't rape, harassment isn't harassment, and abuse isn't abuse.

Harassment

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Since you have been a student at [University], has a student, or someone employed by or otherwise associated with [University] made sexual remarks or told jokes or stories that were insulting or offensive to you?

So, if I make a sexual joke on campus that is overheard by a shrill feminist, it's "harassment".

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Since you have been a student at [University], has a student, or someone employed by or otherwise associated with [University]continued to ask you to go out, get dinner, have drinks or have sex even though you said, “No”?

You ask a girl on a dinner date, she says no because she's going home that weekend. A few weeks go by and you casually ask again - HARASSMENT!


Abuse

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Since you have been a student at [University], has a partner controlled or tried to control you? Examples could be when someone:

kept you from going to classes or pursuing your educational goals
did not allow you to see or talk with friends or family
made decisions for you such as, where you go or what you wear or eat
threatened to “out” you to others

Come to think of it, Captainstabbin picked out the restaurant we went to and ordered my appetizer while I was in the restroom - Captainstabbin is an abuser!!!!


Here's were we get to the meat of the survey. Of course rape is defined as not getting "affirmative consent"

As I said in the similar thread today:

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"Affirmative consent" requires you to stop at "every step" to go over your feelings about the encounter and see if the partner is enthusiastic about proceeding.

"Let's spend a few minutes discussing the thought of us kissing"
"Let's take some time to consider our feelings about feeling your boobs"
SEVEN HOURS LATER
"Ok, finally, are you feeling positive and enthusiastic about having intercourse?"

Didn't follow every step? Touched her boob while kissing her without discussing it? Did you let her start blowing you without questioning her motives? YOU ARE A RAPIST.

Rape

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Since you have been attending [University], has any of the following happened to you while you were unable to consent or stop what was happening because you were passed out, asleep or incapacitated due to drugs or alcohol:

As we've seen before, "incapacitated due to alcohol" can mean 1 drink over dinner.

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Since you have been a student at [University], has someone had contact with you involving penetration or oral sex without your active, ongoing voluntary agreement?

They call it "active" consent but it's the same as affirmative consent.

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Since you have been a student at [University], has someone kissed or sexually touched you without your active, ongoing voluntary agreement? Examples include:
initiating sexual activity despite your refusal
ignoring your cues to stop or slow down
went ahead without checking in or while you were still deciding
otherwise failed to obtain your consent

There we have it. Being "raped" or "sexually assaulted" in this survey means as little as a guy kissing you without first discussing your feelings about it. Or kissing a girl and moving a hand to her boob (over clothing even) without stopping kissing and discussing whether or not to proceed.

And, even after waiting for her affirmative consent, not picking up on her cues to slow down is also rape. The endgame is - all sex is rape, all men are rapists.