When I first started the game I was doing a lot of indirect openers because I lacked the confidence to state my direct intentions straight away .
This meant that sometimes oppertunities would not be taken because I coudnt think of a plausible reason why i would run down the street to catch up with a girl just to ask her where she got her bag from / directions to the nearest xyz .
Nowadays I go direct and it's much easier for me . I have two openers that I can use in most situations .
" this is gonna seem random , but I saw you over there and you looked really cute / I loved your style , and I wanted to introducemyself / talk to you "
I feel that even if you prefer indirect game , you should have at least one direct opener to fall back on if you can't do your usual direct openers .
This meant that sometimes oppertunities would not be taken because I coudnt think of a plausible reason why i would run down the street to catch up with a girl just to ask her where she got her bag from / directions to the nearest xyz .
Nowadays I go direct and it's much easier for me . I have two openers that I can use in most situations .
" this is gonna seem random , but I saw you over there and you looked really cute / I loved your style , and I wanted to introducemyself / talk to you "
I feel that even if you prefer indirect game , you should have at least one direct opener to fall back on if you can't do your usual direct openers .