[ryanf]

You are going to have to get outside your comfort zone. You've gotten over the first hurdle, having a normal conversation with a girl. That's great. Now you have to keep pushing outside of where you are comfortable. You'll have to start putting out sexual vibes as well. Long lingering eye contact, strong body language, touching, and yes, sexualizing the conversation. This will take practice, and is not easy. There is plenty of material in this forum for just that, as well as from Bang. A great one I stole is "when is the last time you had sex?" This should not come out of the blue necessarily, but it's a great way to make your intentions known, without going too far. Tweak and tune, friend.