General Stalin, a few things to say about this.
First, one of the gravest truths about life is that there are two kinds of men: men that have scruples and men that have none. And it is far easier for the proverbial tiger to change his stripes than for a man to change from one of these categories to the other. One must know what category one belongs to, and accept this. Very obviously, anyone who writes a post like yours is a man who has scruples -- so you should recognize this fact about yourself, and take it into consideration in what you do.
Second, women, canny animals that they are, will always sense the kind of man you are -- which of the two categories you belong to. And a woman will know better than to be hurt by anything that a man without scruples does, because she takes his antics for granted. But she can be hurt by a man with scruples if he lets her down, because she senses that he could have known better.
The upshot of this is that, all things considered, it is best for a man with scruples such as yourself to avoid getting involved with women that are unattractive, or that you are not particularly attracted to. First, because even if it might seem tempting for a benighted moment, you will never really enjoy the fucking; and second, because of exactly what you described in the OP: you can hurt these women, in a small but real way, and because you have scruples both she and you will feel bad as a result. So it's just in no way worth it.
Of course, none of this applies to women that are hot and sexually desirable; they are essentially the most powerful creatures in the world, and for the vast majority of men it is impossible to really hurt them. So you can fuck the hotter sluts without ever having to regret it (at least not for this particular reason) and you'll enjoy it infinitely more. It takes more effort, but it's really the way to go if you're of the scrupling kind -- as, indeed, most men are, have always been and will always be.
First, one of the gravest truths about life is that there are two kinds of men: men that have scruples and men that have none. And it is far easier for the proverbial tiger to change his stripes than for a man to change from one of these categories to the other. One must know what category one belongs to, and accept this. Very obviously, anyone who writes a post like yours is a man who has scruples -- so you should recognize this fact about yourself, and take it into consideration in what you do.
Second, women, canny animals that they are, will always sense the kind of man you are -- which of the two categories you belong to. And a woman will know better than to be hurt by anything that a man without scruples does, because she takes his antics for granted. But she can be hurt by a man with scruples if he lets her down, because she senses that he could have known better.
The upshot of this is that, all things considered, it is best for a man with scruples such as yourself to avoid getting involved with women that are unattractive, or that you are not particularly attracted to. First, because even if it might seem tempting for a benighted moment, you will never really enjoy the fucking; and second, because of exactly what you described in the OP: you can hurt these women, in a small but real way, and because you have scruples both she and you will feel bad as a result. So it's just in no way worth it.
Of course, none of this applies to women that are hot and sexually desirable; they are essentially the most powerful creatures in the world, and for the vast majority of men it is impossible to really hurt them. So you can fuck the hotter sluts without ever having to regret it (at least not for this particular reason) and you'll enjoy it infinitely more. It takes more effort, but it's really the way to go if you're of the scrupling kind -- as, indeed, most men are, have always been and will always be.
same old shit, sixes and sevens Shaft...