We have all been there, man. Each one of these men have had something happen in their life where the blinders come off and see reality. As you said, take it day by day and continue on focusing on number one, YOU.
This process will suck for a while. Your ex girlfriend is selfish because she was trying to rush you into something you were not 100% sure you wanted. My best bet is that she will come crawling back and hop on the apology bus begging you to take her back. Do not let her back into your life.
Right now, focus on yourself and make yourself more badass than you already are. Travel, do something that will make you feel like you're invincible, anything that will take your mind off her. You will be much more satisfied in life when you create your own experiences instead of being in the passenger seat.
This process will suck for a while. Your ex girlfriend is selfish because she was trying to rush you into something you were not 100% sure you wanted. My best bet is that she will come crawling back and hop on the apology bus begging you to take her back. Do not let her back into your life.
Right now, focus on yourself and make yourself more badass than you already are. Travel, do something that will make you feel like you're invincible, anything that will take your mind off her. You will be much more satisfied in life when you create your own experiences instead of being in the passenger seat.
Reporter: What keeps you awake at night?
General James "Mad Dog" Mattis: Nothing, I keep other people awake at night.
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