[RougeNoir]

No mistresses/girlfriends. That'll be too hard to juggle. To be safe, go for ONS only at bars/clubs on the other side of town. You will probably need a burner phone, secret email, different name, secret apt on the far side of town, and a consistent weeknight solo activity out of the house (gym, biz meeting, etc) to ensure plausible deniability. You can't afford to get caught. It's very high risk. Be careful, always use rubbers, and cover your tracks.