[Gmac]

Sounds like you just need to find a way to get her on a date and to later get her alone again. She was feeling you, but you didn't have nearly enough chemistry or "comfort" built. Get to know her, maybe you'll like her. In any event, these are not situations to feel bad about. You are not always going to be the "one night stand champion." You younger guys gotta realize it's okay to take it slow, even in college. I'd say based on her reaction that as long as you play "fuck up avoidance" and get a chance to see her again you'll seal the deal within one or two dates. When you get shit-tests like the "eskimo sister" line just ignore it like you never heard it at all. That's how you pass.

I think you're overreacting, which is okay. Just learn from the experience and you'll eventually be able to gauge a girl's interest and when you should hold off until the next time you see her to escalate. Sometimes you won't get that shot, but that's life.