Quote: (02-12-2019 06:15 AM)Oberrheiner Wrote:
Well as a man making 4 children is not difficult, really
The problems are more :
1. first finding a woman which agrees to this
2. then making the money to sustain these 5 persons comfortably.
So, pussy and money - from there on I would say that this forum is not the worst place to make progress with the ultimate goal of founding a family, despite what it might look like at first.
The politics discussions are an interesting insight into what to do/avoid to make the whole process easier (as in finding a country which has pro-children policies for instance, or avoiding indoctrination, etc etc).
Now of course the courage required for all this - that's on you to find within yourself, nobody can do it for you.
Now go, your ancestors are watching you
1- A woman doesn't have to agree. she will do it for love if she loves you. About finding this woman , it is very difficult indeed but your wife is essentially someone you love for decades , it s very different from banging a 10 , she needs the moral qualities for that. Not being obese and being a 5 or more is sufficient for love.
2- When you have kids you understand that money is not the most important. Until teenage time , a kid does not cost much money. You can find second hand stuff everywhere , the only good investment is a pram and a bed , and usually you will pass them on to the next kid. A new 2 euro toy a month is enough to make a kid happy until the age of 4 or 5 if you educate him properly and spend time with him (another reason why women shouldn't work)
and yes this has to come from you. i dont know any normal man who would allow his long term girlfriend to use contraception or is beta enough to use condoms. if you are in a couple with a woman and she gets pregnant , then keep the kid , no matter what your situation is. abortion is wrong. When a kid comes up you always find a solution.
I am 33 and couldnt imagine my life without kids , i am even ashamed to have kids so late.