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(08-25-2015 11:00 PM)CH-Toronto Wrote:  

(08-25-2015 09:01 PM)BlueOcean Wrote:  

The issue is standards. 5/10 average chicks think they deserve 6-figure, 6-pack male models with sense of humor, pecs, kamasutra skills, huge bank account, etc. They're not willing to settle with average 5/10 men who are nice because those guys are "boring." Eventually these chicks hit the wall and then jump into the loving arms of some sexually frustrated beta orbiter. If women had realistic standards, even Manhattan girls could get wifed up easily.

Here's the major problem - those 5,6,7 girls have those standards because they have been fucked by alpha guys. They then equate that as a 'relationship' because they were pumped and dumped by them- they then think they could just as easily lock them down. There-in lies the challenge, and eventually they do and will settle for something much less than what they experienced already. Alpha widow 101

I think a lot of that has to do with the importation of "masculine" culture to women. Society takes the old attitude of men accomplishing things by getting notches, and tries to instill that attitude in women.

So these girls are being conditioned into thinking that they are the ones who are locking people down and accomplishing things by fucking lots of people. The issue with that is they then misconstrue being pumped and dumped with having actually wrapped up a valuable partner through some kind of virtue other than having a warm vagina.

The simple fact is that women, in this "hook-up culture" we have now, are the commodities--not the players fighting over them. The sex drive for men will force them to fuck a greater variety, and we can do so without damaging our psyches in some fundamental way. Not so for women. And women don't get that--they think they did something special by fucking a guy a league above them.

They then take that as a sign that their value is higher than what they think, which circles on back to an even bigger issue--women these days are being trained to construe every shit quality and every random situation as an indication of high value, whether they fucked an alpha, or they're dumb, fat, slutty, lazy, nagging, annoying, anti-social, etc.

The proportions of bangable girls are thinning so much, women's sexual ethics have depleted so drastically, and their sense of worth has become so ridiculously inflated that relationship dead zones are starting to pop up. No one should be surprised that women are complaining about a shortage of men.

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For women, however, the longer a girl settles for casual sex as opposed to a long-term relationship, the more chance she has of ending up alone.

There's a shortage of men who think it makes sense to not play the field. Why would you settle down with a girl in one of these dead zones? Why would you settle with a slut with an inflated ego? It just makes no sense. And it's almost impossible. The match ups just don't happen with these people.

It's not all negative. Guys like us can and do get way more action this way. But there's entire pockets throughout the West where relationship material is so hard to come by that you can chalk it up as non-existent.