Stick with the alias and dont mention it.
Your match cancelled not because she found out who you were, but because of how you framed the whole thing. You revealed a weakness(having to use an alias) and it turned her off.
I have used fake names on tinder before, and I used to explain about it, and accepted the losses it caused. Then I realised I was wasting my time doing that, and gamed on as usual, never mentioned the alias and had success.
Your match cancelled not because she found out who you were, but because of how you framed the whole thing. You revealed a weakness(having to use an alias) and it turned her off.
I have used fake names on tinder before, and I used to explain about it, and accepted the losses it caused. Then I realised I was wasting my time doing that, and gamed on as usual, never mentioned the alias and had success.