A simple way to see if you're serious about this girl
is to set a date in your mind for a hypothetical wedding
approximately 2 years from now...are the way things going now
can you see being able to arrive at that future engagement? If so then
the age gap is not a big deal.
Long term thinking/planning seems appropriate for this situation.
You set a date and then you estimate whether you can iron out all the "wrinkles"
in time.
is to set a date in your mind for a hypothetical wedding
approximately 2 years from now...are the way things going now
can you see being able to arrive at that future engagement? If so then
the age gap is not a big deal.
Long term thinking/planning seems appropriate for this situation.
You set a date and then you estimate whether you can iron out all the "wrinkles"
in time.