Quote: (06-11-2011 06:18 AM)Paideia Wrote:
Vulnerability game (check out Roissy for the former), laughing, maybe that story about the time you did X (and were the protector of women and children).
It all depends on the girl. If she's a true alpha-girl, she doesn't need as much comfort. If she's a shy one, make her laugh out loud. I believe this is the original evolutionary purpose for which (correct me if I'm wrong) humans have and use humor:
It's to build comfort and improve the interaction. Laughter releases endorphins and reduces stress hormones, including dopamine, the "fight or flight" hormone.
I am not quite sure if this could negatively impact the rest of your game. We all know the guy whom the girls love because he makes them laugh, but he can't ever get laid.
In general, I'd focus more on mystery/adventurous aspect to get punani.
This is sort of when "game" theory clouds all judgment.
Among intelligent humans, humor is the result of the contrast between the real and the ideal. It provided comfort when times were tough and reinforced behavior that was focused on the future.