It's a good question and it definitely matters. Deep down we always want our wife or serious girlfriend to see as the One. It sounds egotistical, but it's pretty natural really.
We want them to believe in us, our ideas, and our vision of the world and how it should be. We want this, but can often find ourselves attracted to women who will be the least likely to do so. Why?
Because if she were a mere sheep to begin with it wouldn't mean anything. However if you can convince the person least likely to submit, then you have a real victory in your hands.
I imagine that guy who left finally had enough. After all, when she bad-mouthed him like that she really became an enemy. He threw in the towel, cut his losses and maybe we'll see him down in SA, EE, or SEA soon.
So what's the answer? Probably awareness of how we are that way. Once we see it deeply, perhaps we can be free of it and not care about winning a victory with some entitled, feminist, what-have you. Then maybe we can finally enjoy and appreciate a woman who just submits lovingly and appreciates what she has.
We want them to believe in us, our ideas, and our vision of the world and how it should be. We want this, but can often find ourselves attracted to women who will be the least likely to do so. Why?
Because if she were a mere sheep to begin with it wouldn't mean anything. However if you can convince the person least likely to submit, then you have a real victory in your hands.
I imagine that guy who left finally had enough. After all, when she bad-mouthed him like that she really became an enemy. He threw in the towel, cut his losses and maybe we'll see him down in SA, EE, or SEA soon.
So what's the answer? Probably awareness of how we are that way. Once we see it deeply, perhaps we can be free of it and not care about winning a victory with some entitled, feminist, what-have you. Then maybe we can finally enjoy and appreciate a woman who just submits lovingly and appreciates what she has.