The main problem with rubbing your woman's clit during sex is it trains her to be clitorally dependant. That means she won't have actual orgasms through her cunt when you're banging her. Vaginal intercourse orgasms are a LOT more powerful than clit orgasms which are pretty tame. You want her to enjoy those vaginal orgasms. Those are the sort that help make her keen to please you in bed. Although being an all round masculine guy is more important.
Don't rub her clit during sex and don't let her rub it either. Be the boss. Dominate her and talk dirty to her. A lot of sex is mental for women. Do enough of the other good stuff and she'll come from her cunt alone. Obviously takes more work, but it's worth it. Especially after all the work you put in for the bang. If need be, make her come from her pussy with your fingers first to warm her up.
Don't rub her clit during sex and don't let her rub it either. Be the boss. Dominate her and talk dirty to her. A lot of sex is mental for women. Do enough of the other good stuff and she'll come from her cunt alone. Obviously takes more work, but it's worth it. Especially after all the work you put in for the bang. If need be, make her come from her pussy with your fingers first to warm her up.