Guys, I've got a conundrum.
I've had this happen to me twice now, 7 years apart with two different chicks.
Chick 1:
(I wrote a long version, realized I would not have read it myself, here are the highlights)
- very much into me (pushed me to call her, kept calling me)
- says she wants to get married; I say go elsewhere
- goes back to ex bf
- lays me while with bf
- doesn't lay again, tells me she is no slut
- cries as we part (boo hoo)
summary: laid once, she was still very much into me in her mind, but over the course of the next 1.5 years, no arousal->sex
Chick 2:
- very much into me (pushed me to call her)
- says just left 5yr relationship, looking for a FB
- lay once
- will not lay again but still orbits around me (followed me to class, etc)
- she likes me very much by all indicators, but won't lay again
summary: laid once, still very much into me, won't lay again
Both girls were big girls (not fat, just tall). I'm taller but not pornstar-endowed. Though I've had even taller girls tell me I was the best lay they ever had, I'm not sure about these two vaginas.
Even then, the sex was good; I think..
So, why chase me (they both did) but not fuck me?
I was/am very high value in both circles, but I refused to play the provider right off.
Maybe I was the one they wanted to "spare for later", and I, of course, resent that.
I would want to tap the second one regularly; first one is too old now.
Any insight?
I've had this happen to me twice now, 7 years apart with two different chicks.
Chick 1:
(I wrote a long version, realized I would not have read it myself, here are the highlights)
- very much into me (pushed me to call her, kept calling me)
- says she wants to get married; I say go elsewhere
- goes back to ex bf
- lays me while with bf
- doesn't lay again, tells me she is no slut
- cries as we part (boo hoo)
summary: laid once, she was still very much into me in her mind, but over the course of the next 1.5 years, no arousal->sex
Chick 2:
- very much into me (pushed me to call her)
- says just left 5yr relationship, looking for a FB
- lay once
- will not lay again but still orbits around me (followed me to class, etc)
- she likes me very much by all indicators, but won't lay again
summary: laid once, still very much into me, won't lay again
Both girls were big girls (not fat, just tall). I'm taller but not pornstar-endowed. Though I've had even taller girls tell me I was the best lay they ever had, I'm not sure about these two vaginas.
Even then, the sex was good; I think..
So, why chase me (they both did) but not fuck me?
I was/am very high value in both circles, but I refused to play the provider right off.
Maybe I was the one they wanted to "spare for later", and I, of course, resent that.
I would want to tap the second one regularly; first one is too old now.
Any insight?